Saturday, January 29, 2011

♡ رسالة حب عن حبيبي

Ya ALLAH! Ya Rabbal Alamin! Ya Rabbul Izzati!
*Tell him that I have an order for him
*Tell him, the great love is only the love of Allah SWT (God Almighty)
*Tell him, love will make people forget
*Asked him, do not love me more than he loves Allah SWT
*Asked him, do better than he can remember remembrance of Allah SWT
*Asked him, do not pray for me more than he pray for his parents
*Tell him, make Allah SWT and parents the 1st because there is the way to go heaven
*Remind him, I like him coz of his attitudes, not for coz his face
*Remind him, I more loving his attitudes, not for his money/things
*Asks him, when he began to glorify the love of mankind
*Asks him, when he sank in a dream
*Asks him, when the desire try to control his mind
*Remind him, I owned the Only One
*Remind him, I owned by my family
*Remind him, a big responsibility to his family
*Remind him, do not said love if the responsibility notyet done
*Remind him, if I refused to close coz of self-care limitations of love
*Remind to him, I do not want to be a great temptation to
*Remind to him, I do not want to be a source of failure
*Remind to him, I let Allah SWT take care of himself
*Preaching at him, I do not want to put him forget other things
*Preaching at him, I want him to succeed in our dreams and ambitions
*Preaching at him, I always pray for his success
*Tell him, I kept longing for that pure love
*Tell him, love for Allah SWT is never will calculate the price
*Tell him, this relationship is maintained as long as he maintain a relationship with Allah SWT
*Tell him because I was not able to tell him by my own
*Don't love me until the high sky because the sky will fall
*Don't love me until the deep of sea because the sea will recede
*Don't love the world because the world will be destroyed
*Don't love flowers because the flowers will wilt
*Don't love people because the people will perish
*But love Allah SWT eventhough only the tip of the nail because even if you cut it, the love will always continue.
*And Allah SWT is the l God, Mighty, Wisely

سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك اشهد ان لااله إلاانت وأستغفرك وأتوب إليك

Priorities Hijab for Muslimah ♥



Hijab (headscarf) is obedience to Allah SWT and His Messenger.

Allah SWT has required obedience to Allah SWT and His Messenger, based on the word of Allah SWT:
وَمَا كَانَ لمُؤْمِنٍ وَلاَ مُؤْمِنَةٍ إذاَ قَضَى اللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أمْرًا أنْ يَكُونَ لهُمُ الخِيَرَةُ مِنْ أمْرِهِمْ وَمَنْ يَعْصِ اللهَ وَرَسُولَهُ فَقَدْ ضَلَّ ضَلاَلاً مُبِينًا
"And it is not proper for men who are not believers and also for women who mu'minah, when Allah SWT and His Messenger have set up a provision, there will be for those options (the others) about their affair. And whoever disobeys Allah SWT and His Messenger, he indeed has gone astray, with clear error. "(Surat al-Ahzab: 36)

Allah SWT also ordered the women to use the hijab as the word of Allah SWT:
وَقُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلاَ يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إلاَّ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا
"And say to women who believe:" Let them gaze, and maintain his genitals, and they do not reveal her jewelry, except that (usually) appear thereof. "(Surat An-Nur: 31)

Allah SWT says:
وَقَرْنَ فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلاَ تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الجَاهِلِيَّةِ الأُولَى
"And let you stay in your house and do not be decorated and behave like ignorant people." (Surat al-Ahzab: 33)

Allah SWT says:
وَإِذَا سَأَلْتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعًا فَاسْأَلُوهُنَّ مِنْ وَرَاءِ حِجَابٍ ذَلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ
"If you ask a (need) to them (the wives of the Prophet SAW), then ask from behind the curtain. Such a way that is more sacred to the hearts and their hearts. "(Surat al-Ahzab: 53)

Allah SWT says:
يَا أيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ المُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلاَبِيبِهِنَّ
"Oh Prophet SAW! Say to your wives, daughters and wives of the believers: "Let them extended veils over their bodies." (Surat al-Ahzab: 59)

The Prophet Muhammad SAW said:
"The woman aurah (shame)" means that she must cover her body.

Hijab is' Iffah (glory)
Allah SWT made the obligation to use the hijab as a sign of 'Iffah (refrain from immoral).
Allah SWT says:

ياَ أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ المُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلاَبِيبِهِنَّ ذَلِكَ أدْنَى أنْ يُعْرَفْنَ فَلاَ يُؤْذَيْنَ
"Oh Prophet SAW! Say to your wives, daughters and wives of the believers: "Let them extended veils all over their bodies. That is so they are easier to be known, because they were not molested. "(Surat al-Ahzab: 59)

That's because they cover their bodies to avoid and refrain from bad deeds (sins)," because they were not molested " . Then the wicked will not disturb them. And the word of Allah SWT "and they will not be disturbed" as a signal that know the beauty of the female body is a form of disturbance in the form of slander and evil for them.

Hijab is chastity

Allah says:
وَإذَا سَأَلْتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعًا فَاسْأَلُوهُنَّ مِنْ وَرَاءِ حِجَابٍ ذَلِكُمْ أطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ
"If you ask a (need) to them (the wives of the Prophet SAW), then ask from behind the curtain. Such a way that is more sacred to the hearts and their hearts. "(Surat al-Ahzab: 53)

Allah SWT makei hijab as a sanctity to the hearts of the believers, men and women. For the eyes if not see the heart did not desire. At a time like this, then the liver will not see more sacred. The absence of libel at the time it was more visible, because of hijab destroys the desire of people who have the disease in his heart, Allah SWT says:
فَلاَ تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ
"Not soft desire, saying that in his heart disease." (Surat al-Ahzab: 32)

Hijab is protective

The Prophet Muhammad SAW said:
(إنَّ اللهَ حَيِيٌّ سَتِيرٌ يُحِبُّ الحَيَاءَ وَالسِّتْرَ)
"He was shy and protect as well as shame and protection Likes"

His others word:
(( أيَّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ نَزَعَتْ ثِيَابَهَا في غَيْرِ بَيْتِهَا خَرَقَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ عَنْهَا سِتْرَهُ))
"Who among the women who remove clothing in addition to his house, then Allah SWT has been tearing the cover of her house."

So the reward is commensurate with his actions.
Hijab is righteous

Allah SWT says:
ياَ بَنِي آدَمَ قَدْ أنْزَلْنَا عَلَيْكُمْ لِبَاسًا يُوَارِي سَوْءَاتِكُمْ وَرِيشًا وَلِبَاسُ التَّقْوَى ذَلِكَ خَيْرٌ
"Sons of Adam! We have sent down to you clothing to cover ur beautiful inside and beautiful clothing to jewelry. Piety and clothing that is the best. "(Surah Al-A'raf: 26)

Hijab of the faith

Allah SWT did not say, except to the believing women:
"And say to the believing women." (Surah An-Nur: 31).

Allah also says:
"And the wives of the believers." (Surah Al-Ahzab: 59)

And when the women of Bani Tamim, found the mother of the Faithful, Aisha with thin clothing, he said:
If you believe the women, then (know) that this is not the clothes these women believe, and if you are not believing women, then please enjoy the clothes. "

hijab is Haya '(shame) Prophet's Muhammad SAW said:
((إنَّ لِكُلِّ دِينٍ خُلُقًا ، وَإنَّ خُلُقَ الإسْلاَمِ الحَيَاءُ))
"Surely every religion has a moral and Islamic values that is a shame." His Word the other: "Shame is a part of faith and faith is in paradise." Holy Prophet SAW stated:

((الحَيَاءُ وَالإيمَانُ قُرِنَا جَمِيعًا ، فَإنْ رُفِعَ أحَدُهُمَا رُفِعَ الآخَرُ))
"Shame and faith join together, when one of them in the lift so that another also be lifted." ·

Hijab is passion (jealousy) Hijab is consistent with the feelings of jealousy which is the nature of a man who does not perfectly happy with the views of the treacherous wife and children focused on women. How many wars happened in the time before Islam and the Muslims due to jealousy over a woman and to abstain from sex.

Ali SA bin Abi Talib said: "It has reached me that the women you jostle with men disbelieve the' rooster (non Arab) in the markets, do not you feel jealous? Surely there is no good in a person who has no feelings of jealousy."
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك اشهد ان لااله إلاانت وأستغفرك وأتوب إليك

Friday, January 28, 2011

Trying to Quit Music? Smoking? Porn?

As Muslims, we want our last words in this life to be the shahadah, our declaration of faith, not the lyrics to some song. SubhanaAllah, music is something one's heart can become addicted to so easily. However, there are 'techniques' we can use so that we can decrease how much we listen to music as music can easily lead our hearts astray. Even though I follow the opinion that "music" is not permissible, I understand there may be a difference of opinion in this subject. Therefore, I will stay away from discussing the fiqhi issue on music as I am no scholar.

However, I would recommend to the person who wavers in their decision of whether or not they want to listen to music to consider the hadith of Rasulullah (SAW) in which he said, "Both legal and illegal things are evident but in between them there are doubtful (suspicious) things and most of the people have no knowledge about them. So whoever saves himself from these suspicious things saves his religion and his honor. And whoever indulges in these suspicious things is like a shepherd who grazes (his animals) near the Hima (private pastures) of someone else and at any moment he is liable to get in it. (O People!) Beware! Every king has a Hima and the Hima of Allah on the earth is His illegal (forbidden) things. Beware! There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good (reformed) the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoiled the whole body gets spoiled. And that is the Heart" (narrated by Bukhari). To say the least, indeed, the issue of music is doubtful, so let us save our religion, honor, and heart!

This article is not intended to be an Islamic article. The following is my advice and that is it. It is not intended to be an Islamic approach but just some advice from your brother. In terms of personal reflections on how to leave music, it is a simple process. SubhanaAllah, some people are able to do such deeds cold turkey where they decide to do something one day and the same day, they implement want they want to. However, this technique is hard for the majority of people as one becomes prone to return to his or her old ways as is the case with some Muslims in terms of the deen. May Allah (SWT) protect us. Amen. My personal recommendation would be to leave music in steps or stages with a target date set for each step. For example, one could give up one genre of music at a time (as I did). Another way to give up music in stages would be to eliminate the places/times where one can listen to music. For example, listen to lectures, nasheeds, or the recitation of the Holy Qur'an instead of the radio in your car. However, it is important to stress you need to have a target end date in mind and you need to stick to it, inshaAllah!

This technique could be applied to other things that you may be trying to quit. For example, if you are trying to quit smoking, you can cut down in the types of environment you allow yourself to have a smoke and slowly reduce that number. Or you could cut down on the number of smokes you take per day. This technique of weening off can work for many things. If you suffer from addiction to pornography, maybe you can eliminate the means you assess it. Maybe you can face your computer in your home so that you never truly have that privacy to look at the haram sites. You can attempt to block the means to the haram.

Coming back to the topic of music, subhanaAllah, we waste so much time listening to music when instead we could be accumulating knowledge (I sometimes listen to lectures for my education when I am in the car in lieu of wasting time with music). Furthermore, we can garner soo many good deeds in our remembrance of Allah (SWT) by listening to the Quran or Islamic lectures. Indeed, when we do something solely for the sake of Allah (SWT), we will see the perks of such deeds. For example, Rasulullah (SAW) said, "Whoever says, 'Subhan Allah wa bihamdihi' (Glorified is Allah and praised is He), one hundred times a day, will be forgiven all his sins even if they were as much as the foam of the sea" (narrated by Bukhari). We could definitely take advantage of this hadith in our milk-runs to the supermarket!

May Allah (SWT) accept our deeds. Amen.

In closing, consider the statement of Abdullah ibn Masud, the companion of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW), as Ibn Masud said, "The love of the Qur'an and the love of music cannot combine in the heart of a believer." How true…


سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك اشهد ان لااله إلاانت وأستغفرك وأتوب إليك

All conference Friday (For Muslim)

"When the call is to prayer (bang) to prayer on Friday, then quickly you go (to the mosque) for the remembrance of Allah (in prayer Friday) and leave-purchase (at the time), which is best for you, if you know (the fact that the real). " Surah Al-Jumu'ah:9

He S.A.W. said: "Bring the Friday prayer is the duty of every person who has quite the age of puberty." (Narrated by An-Nasa'i)

Prophet S.A.W. which means: "Whoever ablution and then he went (to the mosque to perform) and listen to Friday prayers sermon, the priest of his sins will be forgiven up to the Friday after that and added a three-day more. Who fun playing the prayer be in vain". (Hadith narrated by Muslim)

Prophet S.A.W. which means "Jumaat is the 1st beautiful day. The most precious day in the sight of him and the sight of Allah the Almighty the most general, the higher (noble) of the feast day of Eid Al Fitr and Adha". (Hadith narrated by Ahmad)

In another hadith, the Prophet S.A.W. said, which means: "Day of the Covenant is the Day of Resurrection, the witnessed day is the Day of Arafah and the Day is a day that saw Jumaat. Sun not published and is not embedded in any day more precious and more better than Friday.

Prophet S.A.W. another meaning: "On that day there was a time in which a servant of the believer to pray to god something good, Allah will fulfill his prayer. Or he asks God to protect him from evil, God protect him from the evil. " (Hadith narrated by At-Tirmidhi)

He S.A.W. said, which means:
- "Anyone who Junub bath on Friday and his appearance (the first Friday prayers at the time), he is like sacrificing a camel."
- "Anyone attending Friday prayers at the second, he is like to sacrifice a cow."
- "Those who come Friday prayers at the third, as he sacrificed a horned kibasy.
- "Anyone attending Friday prayers at the fourth, he gave gifts such as chickens and a mother who attended prayers at the fifth, he seemed to give the prize egg."

"When the imam appeared (increase minbar), the angels were also willing to listen to sermons and warnings." (Sahih Hadith narrated by Al-Bukhari)
He stressed again: "Who had the Friday prayers in the sight of Allah, for him the reward of a hundred martyrs."
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك اشهد ان لااله إلاانت وأستغفرك وأتوب إليك

MUNASABAH CINTA ♥



Ya Allah! Ku mohon padamu ampunkanlah dosa hambamu yang lemah ini ya Allah!
Aku sedar akan segala yang lalu
Sungguh aku menyesal atas segala salah yang ku lakukan
Ampunkan aku ya Allah
Selamatkanlah aku dari bisikan syaitan dan tunjukkanlah jalan yang lurus bagiku.
Amen~
سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك اشهد ان لااله إلاانت وأستغفرك وأتوب إليك